CONFIDENTLY LET GO OF THE PAST
AND THRIVE IN YOUR NEXT CHAPTER AFTER DIVORCE
[without feeling alone, and guessing at what to do next, and waiting for time to heal you]
If you’re a divorced woman looking to finally heal and let go of the life you'd planned than you already know that ...
- life is too precious to keep holding on
- you are worth so much more than letting this painful divorce define you
- you have the strength and determination to push through
And you probably already know that you can’t keep going on this way hurting, rehashing, and staying stuck.
HERE'S WHAT YOU
MIGHT NOT KNOW
Even though you will move on eventually there's much more to life than just moving on. You can:
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BE AT PEACE AND HAPPY AGAIN!
When you retrain your mind and release old energetic wounds you will no longer be triggered so you can be at peace and present in your new life and not repeat old patterns. -
HAVE FULL ACCEPTANCE OF WHAT'S HAPPENED!
When you release old beliefs and heal the emotions in your body you will experience acceptance and release the need for answers so you can feel content and at peace more often. -
DO IT CONFIDENTLY ALL ON YOUR OWN!
When you reprogram your mind with beliefs that work for you, you will wake up knowing you are stronger than ever and can easily do it all on your own so you can take powerful steps forward in your life.
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KNOW THAT YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH!
When you remove old beliefs about your worth and stop making your ex's actions about you, you will know without a doubt that you are worth the life you desire to create so you can attract all that you deserve.
Even Though the Reasons to Finally Let Go and Move On are obvious, the path to do so is anything but
LET GO AND MOVE ON? AWESOME!
But How Exactly Do I Even Do That?
I'm sure in your most determined moments you've made the commitment to finally let go of the picture of what life was suppose to be and finally move on.
You've probably started exercising, putting yourself out there, reading self help books, and maybe even spent months investing in therapy.
And if you're really determined perhaps you've even signed up for an online dating site or two and initiated zero contact with your ex.
It's all helping. But it doesn't last. You're out 'doin you", feeling strong and all of a sudden it hits you and you're in bed with the covers over your head again. Or you're out of bed plastering that fake smile for everyone to see.
You are not alone. Even with endless determination, most divorced women end up feeling stuck and reverting back to sadness and fear every few weeks or months. Just when they think they're over it BAM, the pain hits all over again. And this can go on for years.
Here's why most divorced women get pulled back on a roller coaster of emotions and take so long to really move on and be set free...
Without the proven tools and techniques plus the right support system, they experience the painful emotions over and over again. Then they give up and wait for time to heal them. They fall victim to believing that time heals all wounds. So they wait, and assume more time needs to pass before they feel better.
All the while reading more self help books, seeking solace in their friends, and distracting themselves with food, netflix, or even more self care than ever before.
Feeling lost in the story of what's happened but afraid to let it go because it's now a part of their identity. And worst of all being so focused on losing the life they planned, they don't even question if the old relationship even served the highest version of them.
So this is the problem...
For as long as you keep doing the same things, you'll continue to feel the same way. The same thoughts and actions will trigger the same stuck emotions. The pain gets reinforced and the cycle continues.
Therefore, shifting and reprogramming your painful thoughts and releasing emotional wounds is something you NEED to do to finally let go and move on.
Luckily, there is a powerful way to do just that.
Which means ...
Even if you've tried everything, there's still an incredible way to let go and be completely free to confidently create your next chapter of your life exactly the way you want it..
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That is...if you avoid the mistakes of many divorced women before you.
4 Reasons Why You Haven’t Really Let Go and Moved On to a Happier Version of You
WAITING FOR TIME TO HEAL YOU
Time doesn’t heal you. It may temporarily make you feel better until you repeat the same patterns, but time doesn't actually heal. Think about a deep cut on your hand. It feels better over time, but the scar is still there. See how time doesn’t heal.
It’s what you do with that time that makes the difference. If you wait for time to heal you, and you still have the same thoughts and wounds, the pain will return.
When you use that time to release the painful beliefs that are causing you pain, and you release the wounds, then you’re truly healed.
RELYING ON DISTRACTION AND DETERMINATION
The determination to keep yourself busy and distract yourself from the memories and the painful emotions will certainly help you feel better temporarily. However, determination alone is the same as using the will power method to move on. And we all know the will power method doesn’t work for long. You can’t talk yourself into feeling better for the long term.
You’re fighting with yourself when you use determined distraction to feel better. You’re not connecting to the root of the continued pain - your subconscious thoughts and trapped emotions.
You can only distract yourself from your painful thoughts and resulting emotions for so long. Then they come back with vegence. You have to release those hard wired thoughts and wounds in your body to really let go and move on into a more peaceful, happier version of you.
BELIEVING THE ONLY GOOD LIFE IS THE ONE YOU HAD PLANNED SO YOU HANG ON TOO TIGHTLY TO WHAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN
Often we failed to move on because we spend so much time focused on the past, we forget to even think about our future. What we focus on grows. So if you continue to focus on the past that’s gone, you’re robbing yourself of the energy needed to create your future.
ANything you resist grows stronger. So as you resist this change and refuse to accept that the life you’d planned is gone, your thoughts about that old life will grow stronger and stronger,
Releasing the belief that the planned life is the only one you could truly be happy in, is key to moving on. Acceptance of what is so you can focus forward instead of back is critical to creating an incredible life for yourself in this new chapter.
WAITING ON SOMEONE ELSE TO CHANGE TO MAKE YOU HAPPY
When we replay the past and get lost in what if’s and if only my ex was or did or said, is waiting on his opinion to change in order for you to be happy. Wanting to go back in time so he will say and do and feel the way you want him to is robbing you are of you own happiness.
We can not change another, but we can certainly change ourselves. Our peace and happiness starts within us. And seeking it in the behavior and choices of others is taking the power out of your hands.
Don’t put the key to your happiness in someone else’s pocket. If you want to be happier after divorce, don’t look back to how you wanted your ex to feel or be, look forward in how you can think and act differently to create your own happiness.
Shh...I'm going to let you in on a little secret
Everyone wants to accept the reality of their divorce, move on, and finally feel happy again. But very few do it in a way that transforms them into a stronger, wiser, and more peaceful version of themselves.
Because they believe self care, distraction, and talk therapy which helps them feel better means they are healed.
Not so.
The only true healing is when you rid yourself of the subconscious beliefs and the emotional wounds that's running the show. That's the real definition of what needs to be healed.
And why isn't feeling better enough? Because we'll repeat the past until the wounds are healed.
And with your permission, that's exactly what I'd love to show you how to do.
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Introducing ...
The Most Comprehensive Divorce Support Group For Your Transition, Rebirth, and New Life After Divorce.
The I Choose Me Support Group is the only membership program of it’s kind that…
- Combines the proven results of Cognitive Behavior, Energy Healing, and Neuroscience.
Most healing programs have you analyzing, replaying, and reliving the past without tackling the root of all of your suffering – which is your buried beliefs and stuck emotions.
- Throws out the willpower method of healing and teaches how to use your determination to do everything BUT distract you from what you need to really heal.
This work isn’t theory. This isn’t a shoulder to cry on work. We take action inside of I Choose Me. I show you all of best proven mindset mastery, energy healing, and CBT techniques out there. I’ve designed the entire monthly Divorce Support Group around what I’ve learned from my own divorce and helping hundreds of clients.
- Focuses on You and No One Else to Change for Your Happiness So You Can Make it Peacefully and Happily on Your Own.
We are not going to spend hours talking about what’s wrong with your ex or wishing the past was different. Every week you'll receive tools to focus on what you can change now to feel better, be happier, and to feel more connected to the life you’re now living.
- Doesn’t Wait For Time To Heal You and instead shows you the Powerful, Proven Tools of ACTIVE healing.
Most support programs will have you following the same advice. Give it time. Put yourself out there. Talk it out. Take care of yourself. Well this isn’t like most programs. This doesn’t require you to wait for time to pass to feel better. You'll be supported weekly and monthly to release and reprogram the thoughts and emotions preventing you from letting go and moving on.
Module 1
BREAKING THE ADDICTION TO THE PAST & CREATING AN EMPOWERED MINDSET
Module 1 is where we lay the foundation for the work that lies ahead. We have to know where we are, know where we want to go, and set the plan for how to get there. This module is all about letting go of the old and preparing to create the new.
Before we can move on to the stage of your rebirth after divorce, we need to break your addiction to the Past. This is where we take a inventory of all of the thoughts emotions and actions that may be replaying over and over in you and reinforcing your tie to the Past. And with this inventory, we create a new Action plan of habits 2 break the tie to the Past. to For as long as we hold tightly to the Past will never be able to fully create peaceful future.
Just as importantly, in order to move through the fence transition stage you need to believe that you are empowered to make the changes needed and that you are capable of feeling content and at peace once again. Your mind can't do anything beyond what it believes, so the first critical step is ensuring that you believe that you have what it takes to live an empowered life of peace and contentment after divorce.
Module Highlights:
- 5 Step System for Uncovering the Roadblocks to moving forward so you can create and take powerful actions and get out of your own way.
- Complete the Daily Habits Inventory (DHI) to determine the exact thoughts, actions, and emotions that are keeping you stuck and addicted to the past. With this completed, you now have the clarity needed to complete the step by step plan that will help you break the hold to the past.
- Dive into my Life Visioning and Goal Setting Systems so you have a vision to work toward for what you want your future to look like. As they say, if you’ll go anywhere, you end up nowhere. Here we make sure you end up exactly where you want to be.
- We get to the root of your determination to move on and we anchor that motivating WHY into your daily life so you have constant reminders of why your healing work is so worth it. Knowing your WHY is key to consistency and commitment to get you through the transition period.
Module 2
POWERFUL PRACTICES FOR CALMING THE MIND, RELEASING EMOTIONS, AND HEALING WOUNDS DURING THE TRANSITION STAGE
Now that you uncovered where you want to go in any of the Roblox getting in your way, it's time to learn the coping tips and techniques to bring you to the next stage a rebirth.
During the transition stage of a divorce, and even during the 12 weeks of this program, painful thoughts and emotions are bound to arise. So much of pain experienced after divorce is caused by the hardwired repetitive thoughts that keep going through your mind, and the emotional memories that have been trapped in your body. in this module you will learn day-to-day coping techniques that will help you get your thoughts and emotions stabilized and under control in order to allow you to more powerful thank you to work that needs to be done for your rebirth and your new beginning. In this module is founded on mindfulness cognitive and behavioral therapy. it will help you practice being more present with your thoughts and emotions versus engaging with them so you snowball in a cycle of pain. When that pain is present it's much more difficult to do the work that you need in order to heal and to move forward. So This truly is the foundation of the work and these techniques will serve you for the rest of your life as you experience the Ebbs and flows of Being Human and alive.
Module Highlights:
Curiosity-driven fascinations breaking down the process of how they’ll achieve the promise of the module.
- Learn my powerful Present Moment Mind Technique for quieting the monkey mind so you don’t hop on every train thought that shows up to cause you more pain.
- Practice and perfect the C.A.L.M. technique used by my clients to keep their emotions under control when dealing with your ex or when you find yourself alone and the emotions are about to take over.
- Use my 4 part Emotional Memory Release Guided Audio to easily and effectively release emotions that are stuck in your body. This process can be used to release every emotion holding you back from getting out of a post divorce grief cycle.
- Free your subconscious mind of every thought that is running the running the show on autopilot. My life changing process called L.O.V.E. Belief Release Technique has helped 100’s of divorced divorced women remove the belief blocks that keep them in pain and stuck years after divorce. This process is the key to freedom.
Module 3
RELEASING THE FEARS, NEEDS, AND DESIRES THAT ARE KEEPING YOU STUCK
Now that you have the emotion and thought techniques in place to help you cope through the transition period It's time for your rebirth. To move into the rebirth stage you have to release the fears and the needs the past that are holding you back.
We stay stuck and in pain after divorce for two main reasons: because of the fear of letting go to move forward and because of what we subconsciously believe we are getting from holding on. we have needs that are being met from staying stuck. This module is about relieving the fears holding you back and releasing the beliefs that prevents you fully coming to terms with your divorce. With the techniques in this module you will finally release the need for closure, except the divorce, and overcome the fears you have about moving forward into the future.
Module Highlights:
- Using the L.O.V.E. Belief Release Technique, you will uncover and release the beliefs that keep you stuck desperately seeking closure. This alone will allow you to break free from the chains of the past that keep you looking back.
- Learn the power of true acceptance on your physical and mental well-being by Reframing The Reality of Divorce, Uncovering What It Is You Truly Miss, and Rewriting the Story of Your Divorce.
- Build confidence to forge into the future without fear through the Worse Case Scenario Planner, Empowered Action Planner and your very own tailored Self Soothe Plan.
Module 4
HEALING WHAT FEELS BROKEN WITHIN AND RECLAIMING YOUR WORTH
The Rebirth of you outside of your relationship happens when you reclaim your innate worthiness and heal the wounds that make you feel broken.
So much of the pain of divorce stems from feelings of unworthiness and not being good enough because the pain of rejection. Often we ache for the marriage, not because we want the person our ex had become, but because we want to feel like we are worth it again. We want the feeling of not being good enough to go away.
In this module you finally connect 2 your sense of self-worth and solidify your belief in being good enough. What's important to know is that you can heal those wounds within yourself. You can determine your worth. And it has absolutely nothing to do with your ex or any other relationship.
Module Highlights:
- Based on the power of hypnotherapy, you will reprogram your mind with powerful thoughts of self worth and being good enough through my Self Love Reprogramming Audio.
- With the L.O.V.E. Belief Release Technique, uncover and release the beliefs in your subconscious that have triggered you to doubt your worth since your divorce.
- Take powerful actions to reinforce your self esteem with my Love Yourself Life Vision and Self Worth Assessment and Action Inventory processes.
- Learn to protect your mental and physical health with a guaranteed formula for setting boundaries with ease and no guilt.
Module 5
LETTING GO OF THE EMOTIONS WEIGHING YOU DOWN
As you transition out of Rebirth and into your New Beginning, it’s time to let go of any final emotions about your divorce that have been weighing you down and holding you back. Now that you’ve done the work to know that you’re worth it, you’ll want to get rid of any emotions that no longer represent the highest version of you. You’ll no longer have any space in your world for anger, regret, guilt, and shame.
Your new beginning is free of all the emotions do not serve you. Although some of these emotions may have served a purpose in the beginning of your divorce, they quickly outrun their usefulness so it’s time to shed them. Once you release the weight of these painful emotions you are free to begin anew.
Module Highlights:
- You’ll stop playing the “what if” and “if only” game with your mind and this keep you past focused. With powerful reflection questions to determine what you know is true and what’s now possible, you’ll release the need to guess at what might of been and stop looking backward.
- Use the proven Emotional Memory Release Process and mindfulness techniques to release the energy of anger in your body.
- With Therapeutic Writing Prompts and Self Forgiveness Meditations you’ll be able to find forgiveness of yourself and your ex for the pain that has occured.
Module 6
BRAVELY MOVING FORWARD WITH CONFIDENCE, CLARITY AND COMMITMENT
Now that you've released the emotions that happen when you down, your final step in the new beginning stage is to get to know and reconnect to you again. So often when we are married we push your side are all own dreams, desires, and hopes. We should get who we are outside of our roles and responsibilities of wife and mother and employee in friend and sister. This is the time that we help you return to you. Return to the beautiful being that you were born as before life got a hold of you. We uncover the things that were pushed aside or pushed away that will bring you Joy, contentment, and peace of mind in your new beginning.
Module Highlights:
- You learn the processes for uncovering your purpose, living with gratitude, and being content on your own to end any feelings of loneliness that you may experience curing your new beginning.
- On Earth all of the things that bring out the best in you and bring you Joy with fun interactive exercises, Journal prompts, and fill in the blanks to get you thinking and smiling all about you again.
- Finalize a plan we're starting over in A Life That's All About You. Use my Step by step Life Planning Template to outline exactly what you want your life to look like, and exactly the daily intentions you need to set guarantee that life is inevitable.
GUARANTEE
Your Best Life after divorce is THE most comprehensive divorce recovery program out there. You’re gonna be introduced to the L.O.V.E. Belief Release Technique which will help you permanently release the beliefs that cause you pain and have you obsessing over what could have been and instead initiate you into an incredible new beginning.
One that’s…
… more peaceful
… easier to stay present in
… and falls completely in line with the life you so deeply deserve to be living.
But unlike other programs, I don’t want you to wait 12 weeks before kinda, maybe, sorta seeing a result.
Enroll right now, watch a few short lessons, and prove to yourself that you have the power to train your brain, control your emotions, and commit to a happier version of you within the first 30 days.
If you don’t feel like you’re well on your way to releasing the past while feeling SO much more confident in your ability to move on and be at peace with your new life, just let my team know at [email protected] within 30 days, show us that you put in the work, and we will refund your investment. For details here
Here’s what you’re getting when you enroll today:
The Complete YBL Program (Value $997)
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Bonus 1: Private Online Support Group and LIVE Bi-Weekly Q&A Session with me where I will expand upon the YBL materials allowing you to go deeper (Value $597)
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Bonus 2: Emotional Freedom Technique (Tapping) Session Recordings so you can release energetic blocks and deepen your healing. (Value $897)
- Bonus 3: Rapid Reprogramming Audio Pack & Emotional Memory Release Guided Meditation (Value $597)
Total Value: X$
When you add it all up, that’s a value of $X
But when you enroll today, you’ll get access to everything for just:
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Frequently Asked Questions
Most healing programs having you analyzing, replaying, and reliving the past without tackling the root of all of our suffering – the beliefs we hold in our subconscious mind. Most advice that you receive will help you get temporary relief – like when you stay busy with friends, take up a new hobby, stay away from things that trigger memories, and talk therapy. This all works to help you feel better for awhile. But here’s the thing, for as long as you have the same thoughts in your subconscious, you’ll have the same feelings triggered over and over. There can be no other way. So this program is different because it gets to the root of this pain. I show you how to release those thoughts and to heal the energy of painful emotions in your body.
This work isn’t theory. This isn’t a shoulder to cry on work. It’s based in the proven science of Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Energy Healing, Hypnotherapy, and Neuroscience. It’s based on years of proven realities of how the brain works. We change the programming keeping you sad, stuck, and straddling the past and future.
Money back guarantee so what do you have to lose?
It’s not about whether the program is worth it, it’s about whether you are. And you my dear, are very worth it. Can you really put a price on this one precious life you have to live? If you don’t figure out how let go of your ex and the life you had planned, you’ll never truly move on. Which means you’ll miss out the loved ones and the incredible experiences that you can still have. The better question to ask is, what’s the cost of not being fully present and enjoying this life with your kids, siblings, parents, and loved ones.
If your ex took years from you, don’t let him take another minute. You are worth it. You life is worth it. Imagine coming to the end of your life, would you regret waiting so long to make a change and move on?
And remember, to make this easy for you I have a payment plan so you can get started for just $47.
The program is set up in bite size pieces so it’s easy to digest. If you can commit just 20-30 minutes a day to daily practice you will see results. Just like any healing program, it works if you work it. If you were going to a personal trainer, he can give you all the exercise programs he has, but it won’t change your physique unless you do the exercises. This program is the same. But it can be done in as little as 30 minutes a day. I’ll even help you find that time in your day. You can decide to dedicate more or less time than that and complete additional healing techniques that I will provide, depending on the time available to you. But I have a feeling as you begin to feel relief, you’ll be addicted to doing the work.
Gosh, we can get an extra thirty minutes a day back if we just stop scrolling through Facebook. I know I did! You could wake up thirty minutes early every morning for five days of the week. That's your time. And you're going to knock out the time you need to give back to yourself in this powerful way. You'll find the time, and you'll make that time sacred and special.
You could stay right where you're at. It's your choice. Or three months from now, you could be feeling lighter, more peaceful, and more confident about the future.
What's going to happen, what are you sacrificing if you just stay where you're at?
The program is just 12 weeks that could change the remainder of your life. You so deserve this. This is total healing immersion just for you. If you say “I’m committed to me”, and “I’m choosing me” for just 3 months even, your life will change.
I understand that it can be scary to invest time and money in yourself so I want you to join us when you know it’s for you. So here who it’s not for: It’s not for you if ‘…
- You’re not ready to release old beliefs, trapped emotions and habits that no longer serve you.
- You're ok with repeating the past.
- You haven’t gone through any grieving. If it's a separation just happened last week, it’s too raw.
- You want to wait for time to heal you and are not willing to do the work.
This is for someone stuck. Just can’t seem to let go of the past. Sick of feeling sad. 100% ready to move on and let go but just don’t fully know how.
This Program is right for you if:
- You are more than ready to break your addiction to the past and stop thinking about your ex
- You’re so done with overthinking about why it all happened
- You no longer want to hold on to how life was suppose to be and should have been
- You’re ready to stop feeling scared and wondering if you’ll be alone forever
- You don’t know where to start to stop feeling lost about who you are and what to do next to feel truly happy again
- You are determined to reclaim your sense of self worth and feel good enough
And you’re ready to:
- show up for yourself and commit to your peace like you deserve
- let go of the beliefs that no longer serve you
- reclaim your self worth and confidence to do it on your own
- Make peace with the past and your ex
- Feel happy again and be fully present
Yes. If you’re not feeling any change within 30 days, show me that you’ve completed the work and I’ll refund your money. I don't give any money back guarantees to my one on one clients, because it's too easy to give in and give up then. And I've seen the power of this work over and over again when someone sticks with it. And that's what I want for all of my clients. However, I understand how scary it is to invest so I am offering this guarantee. I am that confident that you will feel completely different as you do this work.
Your Best Life after divorce is a comprehensive roadmap to complete emotional freedom from the past.
- Guided Rapid Reprogramming Audios: Based on the proven system of light hypnosis, we deepen your healing and your confidence to move forward through rapid reprogramming audio sessions.
- Recorded Emotional Freedom Technique Sessions so you can watch as often as you’d like and do the EFT sessions with me.
- 6 Modules with 25 powerful lessons where I teach you the most impactful recovery techniques out there that you can apply to your life right away. These techniques are founded in neuroscience and energy healing to help you control your emotions, release limiting beliefs, heal painful emotions, and change behaviors that no longer serve you.
- In=depth worksheets to help you dig deep and get the most from your experience. These exercises are specifically designed to help you uncover and release those painful thoughts and emotions keeping you stuck.
- LIVE bi-weekly Q&A sessions where I’ll expand upon the lessons allowing you to put the concepts you’re learning into practice.
- Highly Engaged Divorce Recovery Support Group: One of the biggest obstacles to moving on is we fail to have built in ACCOUNTABILITY. What’s so incredible about my coaching support group is that you will have the support of myself and all the members of the group. Having trouble executing our weekly exercise? Find an Accountability Partner in the group. Facing a tough personal challenge in your life? I personally respond daily to questions. Want to share a victory? We’re your dedicated, personal cheerleaders!
Absolutely, if you do the work. Not only has this program worked one on one with my clients, it has worked for me personally. You have the ability to heal. You have the ability to move on and live your best life. You are as strong and resilient as any other divorced woman that my techniques that helped. I believe in you. You just need to believe in you too and take this next step.
This program is perfect for you if:
✓ You are more than ready to break your addiction to the past and stop thinking about your ex
✓ You’re so done with overthinking about why it all happened
✓ You no longer want to hold on to how life was suppose to be and should have been
✓ You’re ready to stop feeling scared and wondering if you’ll be alone forever
✓ You don’t know where to start to stop feeling lost about who you are and what to do next to feel truly happy again
✓ You are determined to reclaim your sense of self worth and feel good enough
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